Brothers and sisters of people with developmental disabilities can often benefit from professional assistance and peer support.

Sibling services can be made available to brothers and sisters of individuals with developmental disabilities, regardless of whether their disabled sibling receives services through AHRC New York City.

Services are available to siblings from all five boroughs at AHRC NYC headquarters located at 83 Maiden Lane in Manhattan.

AHRC New York City is unique in the wide range of services that it offers to siblings, both children, and adults:

  • Sibshops

Sibshops are activity-based workshops for brothers and sisters of individuals with cognitive/developmental disabilities, ages eight to thirteen.

Upcoming (In-Person) Sibshops dates are as follows:

Saturday, November 19, 2022 from 11:00 am to 2:00 pm

Saturday, December 10, 2022 from 11:00 am to 2:00 pm

held on the 10th floor of
AHRC New York City’s headquarters
83 Maiden Lane
New York, NY 10038

Those interested should be from 8-13 yrs of age and can contact Annette Spallino at 908-419-3907 or email

  • Adult Sibling Group

It is likely that the brothers and sisters of a sibling with a disability will be a part of that sibling’s life for longer than anyone else – longer than a parent.  The responsibilities surrounding the care of a sibling with a disability may change with age, leaving brothers and sisters with important care decisions, sometimes difficult, challenging, or painful.

As they grow older, siblings learn strategies to advocate for their brothers and sisters. By connecting with other adult siblings, brothers and sisters of a person with disabilities can often benefit from professional assistance, peer support, and resource materials.  By sharing expertise gained over the course of their lifetime, siblings can provide each other with emotional support, resources for planning special services for their sibling, legal and financial planning, and future guardianship planning.

To register for or to obtain information about the services and workshops listed, please contact Annette Spallino, Sibling Services Coordinator, at 908-419-3907.

Additional Resources for Siblings is a website dedicated to serving the needs of siblings, providing:

  • Online Learning – Self-paced training on important topics for siblings such as planning for the future and navigating the disabilities service system.
  • Educational Webinars – Available to both siblings and service providers, to educate on important topics.
  • Sibchats – Phone conversations in which adult siblings from across New York State connect with each other to discuss share expertise in future planning for one’s sibling with a disability, securing appropriate services within the New York State disabilities services system, and tools to advocate on the behalf of siblings.